Are you a divorced parent who’s struggling to get along with your ex? If so, don’t worry, you’re not alone. 


Co-parenting can be a challenging task, especially if you and your ex are not on the best of terms. 


However, it’s important to remember that you’re both working towards the same goal: RAISING HAPPY, HEALTHY CHILDREN.


Here are a few tips that might help: 


1) Communicate regularly and effectively. This is probably the most important thing you can do. 

That doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to be best friends. But it’s important to have regular communication about your children’s lives.

Talk about what’s going on with the kid(s), scheduling, logistics, etc. This can help you to avoid any misunderstandings and miscommunication. 

Make sure you’re on the same page.  


2) Avoid talking about each other negatively in front of your child. They don’t need to hear that stuff! 


3) Be flexible and understanding. The best laid plans sometimes go awry, and that’s okay! Be prepared to adjust your sails when needed and don’t get upset if things don’t go according to plan. 

Compromises will help make things much easier for everyone involved.


4) Focus on the positive aspects of co-parenting. This can be difficult at times, but remember that you’re both working towards the same goal. By keeping this in mind, you can help to make the process a little bit easier.


5) Set boundaries and stick to them. Boundaries are important in any relationship but it’s crucial to have them set when co-parenting with your ex. 

It may be tempting for you both, after time has passed and the kids’ needs and wants become more vocal to give in and go back to old habits.

However, this will only lead down an inevitable path of resentment that could continue through generations like a family tradition (or something even worse). 

So please don’t feel bad about saying no – we all want what’s best for our children even though they might not see things exactly as we would.


6) Pick your battles wisely. Remember, not everything has to be a do or die situation. Take it one step at a time. You can win some battles and lose others but the important thing is that you don’t let everything pile up into an overwhelming problem 


7) Don’t forget to take care of yourself. Co-parenting can be stressful, so make sure to schedule time for yourself and do things that make you happy. 

Co-parenting can be a difficult task, but it’s doable with the right tools. 


These tips should help you to start your co-parenting journey on the right foot and maintain a peaceful home for your children. 


Remember, it takes time and patience to learn how to co-parent effectively, so don’t be too hard on yourself if things don’t go perfectly from the get-go


With a little effort, you can create a harmonious home environment for your children that will benefit them in the long run. 


What have been your biggest challenges as a co-parent? How have you overcome them? Let me know in the comments below!